Hi Anita,

There is no problem with the relationship, there is a problem with me in the relationship, if that makes sense.

I say he’s a saint because he loves and supports me no matter what but my own insecurities and failures bubble to the surface and I take it out on him. He is doing nothing wrong, he simply bears the frustration with myself.

We have a loving and good relationship but my own insecurities and shame and fear brings him down and it brings us down.

I hope this makes sense, and thank you for continuing to check in.

Kathleen