Hi Anita,

Wow you’re tough..I meant only that I’ve always gone and got things done and have felt that my opinion at times has overridden others. A relationship should be equal and at times one or the other takes charge. In this case I learnt this a little too late and have paid the consequences to a terrible loss to me. My arrogance and persona that attracted my partner ultimately has become my downfall and I am a lot more humble now. Ironic for a person whose career is all about managing risk. Ultimately I am devastated by whats happened and now struggle with finding purpose going forward. I would love to turn the clock back to the younger me but all I am now is a salutary lesson to others.

Jonnym