Dear william:

I re-read your short post and I know you haven’t been back to it yet with telling more of the story. Until you do, my only comment would be that it makes sense to me that you cut contact with the co worker so that she can work on healing her marriage simply because this is what she wants to do. I am puzzled by her asking you if it is stupid for her to try to do that..

Is it stupid of her? (More questions for you). You know the story of her marriage. Is her husband, maybe, such a person that it would be stupid of her to try to work it out?

I wanted to give you some feedback and ended up asking another question.

anita