Dear william:

I suppose you have two walking away to do: one to walk away from your wife and the other to walk away from her. That could prove to be a relief once you accomplish these two walk-aways.

As is now, you are “dazed and confused”- you are more likely to get into accidents this way, driving dazed and confused. It is not healthy or safe for you. So in effect, she is having a negative affect on you, and so, she is harmful to you. That is not loving of her, is it? To harm you… to cause you this confusion and distress as she is trying to make her marriage work. Quite selfish, isn’t it?

Maybe you should walk away… the moment you conceive in your mind that it is possible for you to do so, then you can. The moment you think you can, then you can. What is that children’s story: The Train that Could…

anita