Totaly understand these stories aye myself have just been through something similar and last tuesday i cut the circle by getting rid off facebook so i can no longer contact this person who would just like the point of contact to wheel you in and then spit you out i made mistakes but i admit them but the red flags were there they say always go with your gut feeling and i didnot i found this site and as days go on it will get eaiser but for one will never contact this woman again i agree with the no feelings or guilt at all part hence at her age 47 near you think they be mature a little but i wore my heart on my sleeve and thats what happend never change who you are someone will like you people like that in my experince will one day do something wrong but you and i will have moved on its damm hard but the more ammo you give them the better it is for them but i took the big break to escape from facebook i will never contact that person again and have to look at it as a lucky escape … Cheers Darren