Dear Ravi:

You are welcome. You see things clearly and i am glad you do. One correction, if I may: the behaviors we discussed, your behaviors were deplorable, and at the time you engaged in those behaviors you were deplorable, but you are not permanently deplorable, only when you engaged in those behaviors and only if you repeat them with no sincere and real efforts to stop them.

Your insight and efforts to not repeat, to learn and do what it takes to not repeat, this means you are not a foul and deplorable individual. You are much more than those behaviors that you practiced in the PAST.

The teaching by your mother and grandmother, that nothing is ever your fault and everyone else is automatically guilty, that is deplorable. And… they repeat that bad teaching… and they are not trying to stop this bad teaching, bad behavior on their part…. even though you told them that they are wrong. They won’t look into themselves so no chance of them correcting their bad behavior.

I should stop talking about your parents and grandmother, only I want you to face it that they are wrong indeed, ignorant, I suppose, but also closed to any input, any evaluation of their behavior. But you are open, so see them as they are and adhere to what is true. Have your loyalty be with the Truth above all.

Well, I am here and I know you are waiting. Will be waiting with you still. Bed time for me in a few moments (WA, USA)

anita