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Dear Shirley:

When your parents criticize, pester and put pressure on you like they do so often, they operate against your well being.

They are blind to what they are actually doing, blind by the fear that motivates their behavior toward you. It is a great shame that this is the case in your life and in so many others’ lives. The world would have been a much, much better place if people paid attention to the affect and effect of what they are doing and evaluate their talk and actions: is it working FOR my child or AGAINST my child?

Your friends and your special friend are the people where you get comfort, as well as your spiritual beings that appear in your dreams and sometimes leave feathers and light in your day.

Life does not have to be this way. As you find your own way or ways in life, as an adult, you will be able to choose who you live with, if anyone, and how. You will be able to choose a person or people who accept you, comfort you, allow you to determine what is best for you, respect you and your abilities and …never expect perfection from you. In essence, people motivated by love and not by fear.

Till your next post, take good care of yourself.

anita