Dear Ladybug:

I am hesitant as what to write to you (and write I must unless you notify me that you are not interested in my input) because as I see it, you are so very much on the healing path that I don’t want to interfere.

I very well remember your long ago assertion with me and I don’t in any way want to …tell you the-way-it-is, that will hurt you and me, so I am cautious.

Comment: you wrote above that “it’s unfair of me to put this (“be depressed or mad or sad or happy) all on him (your bf)”-

as if it was a bad thing to be depressed or mad… And isn’t it your mother’s message by “saying how fun everything is… how good and how great everything is” ?

But it is not a bad thing. It is a good thing for Ladybug to be authentic. It is a wonderful gift you give your boyfriend, an authentic girlfriend, that is. And he has to appreciate it if he is authentic himself.

It’s a good thing!

keep at it, Ladybug. I am inspired and impressed beyond words!

If you do want more of my input at this point (or less, or none at all, please do let me know)!

anita