Dear Brav3:

I am so relieved that you posted again and that you are fine now! So relieved because I was afraid that I caused you harm by suggesting that exercise. I am also glad that you made this promise to yourself.

The title of your thread is: “Is the concept of being in relationship is flawed ?” I would like to answer this question at this point with: The concept of ignoring yourself, your gut feelings, your wants, needs and values so to be in a relationship is flawed.

Who you were in that relationship is not the same person you are now. You made a promise to yourself, and here publicly, on this forum. And having the integrity that you do, you will do your best, I believe, to walk your talk, that is, to live up to your promise. And in so doing, you are no longer the same person. I like the idea of adding the e to your name, Brave.

Please do post again and again, and yet again. I would like that very much.

anita