Speaking as a man who was once obsessed and addicted to women’s sexuality and beauty and mistook lust for love, all I can say is that I was weak and I allowed women to feed my delusions by jumping into bed with me very quickly.
If my mind becomes hooked and obsessed, I must be in love, right?
If I pursue this woman and she returns my advances, then we must be in love, right?
These relationships were fallacies rooted on a weak foundation driven by hormones and insecurities probably on both sides.
Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine. 