Kakelina,

In addition to Jerry’s thoughtful and pertinent words, remember that you don’t have to “figure it all out”. Some people have been in relationships for so long they define themselves as part of a whole, instead of whole.

Said differently, going on dates is fun! Good food, new connections, lots of questions and feelings… perhaps its best to let go of a “future Mr. Kakelina” concern and go out and play. Is he cute?

With warmth,
Matt