Is telling him more and heaping more pain onto him (and you) going to change what happened? You’ve already told him and apologized. Don’t keep bringing it up because sooner or later he will stop believing you and wonder if you’re leading up to something even worse. That’s a very slippery slope. I think it’s more important for you to understand what your own motivations were when you had more than one indiscretion. That’s the thing you need to come to terms with (in my opinion).

• This reply was modified 11 years, 5 months ago by Jeff.