Alexa,

It sounds like he has some insecurity about intimacy, and as you remain heartfelt in your communication, the insecurity will perhaps settle. It is difficult to jump in after we have been hurt, and instead of just trusting, we question.

“Is it safe to love you?” “Will I be hurt?” His question seems awkwardly phrased, but I’m trusting your interpretation. The only response needed is your heartfelt creativity in pouring back to him whatever assurances seem right to you. Trust love!

With warmth,
Matt