Hey

Well I guess my very honest advice would be ask yourself (which it seems you already have) why is this a problem? I think within that answer will lie the solution. Simply put, if you don’t care about people and aren’t available to them then eventually they won’t be available to you either.

That doesn’t of course mean that you have to care about everybody. Some people aren’t right for us.

So my question would be why do you feel bad about this? Because if you don’t, then there isn’t a problem. Although as I mentioned I think you do feel bad.
Also I would add you shouldn’t feel too bad about this. Life will teach you 🙂

Peace and good luck.