I know, I kinda agree with you , that is why I never contacted him, but just to clarify he never said he is not looking for serious, if he had I would have walked away right there, we talked on the first date and I told him I am not looking to goof around I am looking to properly date and he said the same thing. The only thing he said that he wanted to take it slow, because his experience says rushing usually ruins things, and he doesn’t want to screw things up. Unless he was lying, but if he had said he is not looking for serious I would have walked away. I have been trying to understand why he behaved that way, because he was such a nice guy, and I wasn’t expecting a cowardly behaviour like this, and to me it was not mature enough, we are both adults. I just feel quite disrespected, and the reason I thought maybe I should contact( which for some reason I can’t do it) is to get closure, just to say what I think and let it go. Because as of right now, he thinks he got away with it, and I have a little hope that he might come back later on. Thanks for the advice.
I think the pain of getting a bad answer is holding me back to contact. So I’m gonna try to get closure without it. I was just hoping someone could tell me a good way to get closure without contacting.
Thanks for the nice words as well. I do agree with out. This guy was such a nice guy that is why it is so hard to let go and stomach what he did.