Hello Laleh,

I can tell you from my experience, even if you try talking to him, it wont give you any closure, I tried it, and dragged it out for month and half, but in the end the answers were same, I didnt understand what went wrong in my perfect relationship. We are both mature professionals and had been together for about 10 months, things went really fast after first date, and we use to meet every month or so, it was long distance relationship, but we were very comfortable and secure with each other, anyway now its over, and as i was still sending her messages asking her questions, to get closure, she reported me to police, for harassing her.

I would ask you, to not lower yourself, just be strong, its very very hard, I know. I hope one day we come across again, and she realize, what a foolish mistake she made, that all. Be Strong, take care of yourself, create a network of supporting friends and talk to them and cry as much as you want, till u don’t have tears left, talking about seems so boring to you, then you will move on,

Its like” what cant be cured, must be endured” be brave, don’t contact him, pick yourself up and move on. I wish you good luck.

Hurtone.