Just see it as how it effects people on an emotional perspective, as opposed to a value a person has, or social gimmicks, despite those things it genuinly has impacts on a persons feelings, as I’ve observed in both men and woman alike.

It tends to only mean nothing to those who think little of it, hence the double sided perspective, at the end of the day people will follow their emotional justifications towards things, but judging on Alex’s two threads I still found it important to weigh in a bias viewpoint

Simply because I know people can change so drastically based on their environment, seen it happen too many times, and too many people hurt, and I’ve found that giving yourself in to people such as the one who offered, tends to open gateways and vulnerabilities to people who later wish they were more detached from such vague yet impactful situations

However as you’ve both said, it still remains true that a person should follow whats important to them, or as you’ve put what they feel okay with, just as I say things should always be thought deeply into. Hence it’s why places like this are a small but good partition to view things through