Thank you all so much for your kind comments. It is a complicated situation (aren’t they all) and its had a bit of a domino effect. Its like all of a sudden my eyes have been opened to what people have actually thought about me all these years. Its very difficult and painful but I know there is light at the end of the tunnel.  I have walked away relatively recently. I need to move on, but I know its a process.  Thanks all once again.