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    Anonymous
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    Dear Marie:

    It is a terrible thing to grow up without love, without loving attention and that is very common. You grow up without love and now you hate yourself. It is very common, parents not loving their children. The reasons are many, moslty parents were not loved themselves as children. I used to say that I carry the pain of generations. It is painful, so painful to just feel the hurt, so we prefer to feel anger, anger toward others, anger toward ourselves, hating ourselves. Anything but that weak hurt, needy feeling. Often it is scary to feel anger for parents, so we attack the weak party, the victim, that is, we attack ourselves. Yes, you can leave me your email address if you would like and I will write to you.
    anita

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    Marie
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    It’s really very common. The love people get as kids not only influences their children but also their relationships. Maybe you can share your story with me. I thank you and all of the others in this thread who helped me with their words. I tried to send you a message, but I don’t know if it worked. That email address I gave you is incomplete. My email is mls91@mail.com. It’d be really nice to hear from you, Anita.

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