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Addictive Relationship…Fear of never getting over them

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  • March 3, 2014 at 11:43 am #52180
    Cyd
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    I have been in and out of an addictive situation for 3 years now. I was there for this person from the very beginning and watched them grow. I never left their side and for them to not even see me emotionally or take me serious and treat me so cheaply is just unbelieveable. I have been the only one loving unconditionally, giving my all (mind,body,soul,energy) to this person. I began to see that they weren’t interested anymore but they never told me. Instead they told me they would meet my needs only to later be indecisive. I long for them to tell me that they are not interested and just let me go. I’m too weak to leave them. What makes people so addicted to bad relationships? It’s kinda like I love feeling pain.

    March 3, 2014 at 2:52 pm #52189
    Katelyn
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    I am in the same position as you are right now and I will say that it is the worst feeling ALIVE! I can only speak for myself- I wouldn’t say I love feeling pain but that I’ve spent so much time and energy on this person and i feel most comfortable with them that seeing myself with another person is very hard and even more scary! Thanks for sharing 🙂
    Kat

    March 3, 2014 at 6:25 pm #52213
    daydreamer91
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    its like u are telling my story! m too is in a bad relationship with this group of people i used to call my family. but things have changed in past few months. no one shares anything with me or trusts me but expect me to behave normally one we meet once a month. every time something happens they like to believe that i have some ulterior motives behind it. i want them to just let me go. m too week to do it myself as m going to be totally alone when they exit. but i don’t enjoy them anymore. 🙁

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