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  • #101286
    Anonymous
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    Dear blank:

    How young are you? What is your age?

    anita

    #101287
    Blankckv
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    anita you said There is a lot of information there, some of which is correct.I dont know what is it so I said to you is What u said of some of which is correct?Ok,When started saying F words I search online about blasphemy and OCD thoughts and I read and read some ppl say F words.How should I puy it.I read in my mind F words to F**** to buddha.This is what I want to know anita..MY english is bad so please forgive me.

    #101288
    Blankckv
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    I’m 22 now but I still university student because my parents late school to me.Because of illness.

    #101289
    Anonymous
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    Dear blank:

    Okay, I will suspend my disbelief that this is an authentic thread and assume it is.

    What you are describing, again, is OCD. It is a disorder fueled by anxiety, ongoing fear. (I stated this before on this thread). This is a common disorder. On that site i suggested, there is a huge forum dedicated to people with the OCD diagnosis.

    Like anything you read or hear, not everything is true. Sometimes people are mistaking and sometimes they intentionally lie. So you have to Critically Read anything you do read and ask yourself: does this makes sense to me?

    As far as buddha: I am not a Buddhist. I don’t know what “buddha” means to you. It sounds to me like it means a judgmental god to you and you are afraid that he will punish you for saying out loud (or even thinking) the F word.

    I strongly believe that you thinking Anything At All that you are thinking is okay and acceptable. None of it makes you a bad person who deserves to be punished. Your thoughts are yours, all happening in between your ears. You are free to think anything at all with no punishment from the outside. Regarding saying the F word out loud in association with the thought about buddha, I think this is okay too.

    You are welcome to think about me, anita, and say he F word now. Please: say it, if you’d like.

    It is okay with me, no harm done to me.

    Read more about OCD, Take deep slow breaths to calm yourself, go for long walks to calm yourself. You will have to calm yourself because of the anxiety, the fear going on and on.

    Meditate, do yoga…

    anita

    #101359
    Blankckv
    Participant

    Thanks replying again anita.I will try my…

    #101360
    Anonymous
    Guest

    Dear blank:

    Please post with an update of any new understanding and insight that you learn about your anxiety and obsessive thinking fueled by that anxiety, as well as whether it is helpful for you to meditate/ take long walks and other means of calming yourself in healthy ways.

    anita

    #103756
    Blankckv
    Participant

    Hi anita long time no see.I tried to do everything.But my mind still saying bad words to buddha.I tried to get rid of this.I playing game rstudy.House cleaning but just still as same.If I lit any and comminted this sin will buddha will be forgive me?In buddhaim blasphemous of Holy spirit is.Not forgivable sin.Actually this thoguhts are I really don’t want it.I scared to talked to my parents and monks.I really depressed of this.Some said if said bad words to buddha you’ll go to in reall life earthquake and go to hell.Sorry about this.I don’t know how to describe that.Story just like devadatta and buddha.I thinking of I’Ll become just like the devadatta.

    #103758
    Blankckv
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    A buddha movie of(India).A very popular series.I scared to become just like one of the buddha brother devadatta.I don’t know how to do now.This mind is really really depressing me.I always pray for forgive even still had it.

    #103759
    Anonymous
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    Dear Blankckv:

    I am sorry you are still in distress, still suffering.

    You are still afraid to be punished by buddha for saying certain words to buddha. Are there other things you are afraid to be punished for? Are there other “crimes” that you committed so far in your life, that you feel guilty about, afraid to be punished for?

    anita

    #103761
    Blankckv
    Participant

    I always litany when I sleep.I pray and ask to buddha forgive this kind of thoughts I had.I don’t know when it starts to become like this I never happen felt like this before.This time I just it to buddha is.Don’t sit on the buddha head.I don’t know what I am saying this.Is this sblasphemous and sin anita.but it’s said repatriation and repeat again.I afraud to become when earthquake come the building are going to down just like that for me too.I really regard that.Buddha will know my thoughts.I really embrassed myself.Why did happen this to me.

    #103762
    Anonymous
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    Dear Blankckv:

    Where did you read that the buddha will punish a person for having certain thoughts or saying certain words or sentences? Can you find the quotes and state from what book you quoted? I am looking for where you got the idea that buddha will punish you and would like to read those writing myself. When I do, I will read those quotes carefully and reply further.

    anita

    #103765
    Blankckv
    Participant

    No not on quone’s in our country monks and in buddha book said like that.My parent and my family told too.That’so why I really of this.Mentail is very important people said in our country.

    #103768
    Blankckv
    Participant

    People said if you blasphemous buddha the natural will not forgive.Just like a series buddha and devadatta movie from india.Finally he go to hell because he doesn’t many bad things to goutama buddha.He dies with go down hell like earthquake

    #103769
    Anonymous
    Guest

    Dear Blankckv:

    I don’t understand. Is your fear based on a writing somewhere? Is it written that a person be punished for having certain thoughts about the buddha or saying certain words about the buddha? Yes, or no?

    If yes, please quote those writings in your next post.

    anita

    #103771
    Blankckv
    Participant

    Common Prayer in Brief (ဩကာသဘုရားရွိခိုး အက်ဥ္း)
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    [Language in English – Myanmar] {အဂၤလိပ္ – ျမန္မာ ႏွစ္ဘာသာ}
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    [In English]

    In order that all my sins, accumulated from evil deeds done physically, verbally and mentally, may be eliminated and excused, I raise both folded hands up above my forehead, worship, honour, greet, and humbly pay homage to the Three Precious Jewels of the Buddha, the Dhamma and the Samghā; once, twice, thrice I pray, O My Lord, Sir.

    By this act of salutation may I be excused forever from the four Apāya, the Three Kappa, the Eight Ahaṭṭkkhaṇa, the Five Verāni, the Four Vipatti, the Five Vyasana, Diseases; and at the final existence may I attain Magga, Phala and Nibbāna. O My Lord. Sir.

    Buddhaṁ pūjemi = I worship the Enlightened One.
    Dhammaṁ pūjemi = I worship the Doctrine, the Law.
    Samghaṁ pūjemi = I worship the Order of Samghā.
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    Pāli Meanings (ပါဠိ အဓိပၸါယ္မ်ား)
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    1.Four Apāya – Four states of Woe [ Rebirth in hell, as an animal, a ghost, a demon ]
    (အပါယ္ေလးပါး) – {ငရဲ၊ တိရစၧာန္၊ ၿပိတၱာ၊ အသူရကာယ္ တို႔၌ျဖစ္ရျခင္း}

    2.Three Kappa – Three Scourges [ war, epidemic, famine ]
    (ကပ္သံုးပါး) – {လက္နက္ေဘး၊ ေရာဂါေဘး၊ အစာအဟာရငတ္ျပတ္ျခင္းေဘး အမ်ိဳးမ်ိဳးတို႔ျဖင့္ ပ်က္စီးျခင္း}

    3.Eight Ahaṭṭkkhaṇa – Eight Wrong Circumstances
    [(1)Born in hell (2) Born as an animal (3)Born as a ghost (4)born as a lifeless brahmā, a formless deity
    (5)born with deformed faculty (6) born in a slum (7) born as heretic; and
    (8)being born with adequate intelligence but not during the time of the Buddha’s arising.]

    -ရပ္ျပစ္ရွစ္ပါး –
    {၁။ငရဲ ၂။တိရစၧာန္ ၃။ၿပိတၱာ-အသူရကာယ္ တို႔၌ျဖစ္ရျခင္း
    ၄။ရုပ္သာရွိ၍ နာမ္မရွိေသာ အသညသတ္ျဗဟၼာ – နာမ္သာရွိ၍ ရုပ္မရွိေသာ အရူပျဗဟၼာဘံု၌ ျဖစ္ရျခင္း
    ၅။တရားကိုနားလည္ႏိုင္ေသာ ဥာဏ္မရွိသူျဖစ္ျခင္း ( မ်က္စိ၊ နားစသည့္ အဂၤါႀကီးငယ္ခ်ိဳ႕တဲ့ျခင္း – ဣေႁႏၵခ်ိဳ႕တဲ့သူ )
    ၆။(ဘုရားႏွင့္ ရဟႏၲမ်ားမေရာက္ေသာ)တိုင္းစြန္နယ္ဖ်ား ဆင္းရဲေသာဇနပုဒ္၌ျဖစ္ရျခင္း ၇။အယူအဆမွားယြင္းသူျဖစ္ေနျဖင္း
    ၈။အသိဥာဏ္ျပည့္၀စြာျဖင့္ ေမြးဖြားေသာ္လည္း ဘုရားပြင့္ေသာအခ်ိန္အခါ၌မဟုတ္ျခင္း – ဘုရားမပြင့္ေသာအခါ လူျဖစ္ရျခင္း

    (ဘုရားပြင့္ဆဲအခါ ၇-ပါး၊ မပြင့္ေသာအခါ ၁-ပါး၊ ေပါင္းရပ္ျပစ္ ၈-ပါး)}

    4.Five Verāni – Five Enemies [ tyrants, conflagration, flood, robber, foe(enemy) ]
    (ရန္သူမ်ိဳးငါးပါး) – {မင္းဆိုး, မီး, ေရ, ခိုးသူ, အေမြခံသားဆိုး၊ သမီးဆိုး}

    5.Four Vippatti – Four Deficiencies
    [(1)Dark age, wartime depression time (2)Born in four states of woe
    (3)unlawful earning of life (4)physically deformed]

    -၀ိပၸတၱိတရားေလးပါး –
    {၁။လူမ်ားစရိတၱပ်က္၊ မင္းဆိုးမင္းယုတ္ အုပ္စိုးေသာကာလ၊ စစ္ျဖစ္ေသာအခ်ိန္ကာလ၊ ေခတ္ကာလေဖာက္ျပန္ျခင္းကာလ တို႔၌ျဖစ္ျခင္း
    ၂။လားရာဂတိေဖာက္ျပန္ခ်ိဳ႕ယြင္းျခင္း( အပါယ္ေလးပါး၌ျဖစ္ျခင္း )
    ၃။အသိ အလိမၼာ ဥာဏ္ပညာ လံုလ၀ီရိယေဖာက္ျပန္ခ်ိဳ႕ယြင္းျခင္း( မတရားသျဖင့္ အသက္ေမြးျခင္း )
    ၄။ရုပ္ဆင္းအဂၤါေဖာက္ျပန္ခ်ိဳ႕ယြင္းပ်က္စီးျခင္း}

    6.Five Vyasanas – Five Misfortunes [ Loss of; relatives, wealth, health, virtue – moral destruction, ideology – view ]
    (ပ်က္စီးဆံုး႐ံႈးျခင္းဟူေသာ ဗ်သနတရား) – { ေဆြမ်ိဳး၊ စည္းစိမ္၊ အနာေရာပါ၊ သီလ တို႔ပ်က္စီးျခင္း၊ အယူ၀ါဒမွားယြင္း ပ်က္စီးျခင္း }

    7.Diseases – 96 deseases ( General )
    အနာမ်ိဳး(၉၆)ပါး – ( ခႏၶာအတြင္း၊ အျပင္ ေရာဂါမ်ား ) {ေယဘူယ်အေနျဖင့္}
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    ၾသကာသဘုရားရွိခိုး အက်ဥ္း
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    ၾသကာသ ကန္ေတာ့လႊာ
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    (Common Prayer in Brief) [ Language in Myanmar ]

    ၾသကာသ၊ ၾသကာသ၊ ၾသကာသ၊ ကာယကံ၊ ၀စီကံ၊ မေနာကံတည္းဟူေသာ အျပစ္ခပ္သိမ္း ပေပ်ာက္ၿငိမ္း၍ အသက္ရွည္စြာ အနာမဲ့ေရး ရန္းေဘးကင္းေၾကာင္း ေကာင္းမႈမဂၤလာ ျဖစ္ပါေစျခင္းအက်ိဳးငွာ ဘုရားရတနာ၊ တရားရတနာ၊ သံဃာရတနာ တည္းဟူေသာ ရတနာ ျမတ္သံုးပါးတို႔ကို အရိုအေသလက္အုပ္မိုး၍ ရွိခိုးပူေဇာ္ ဖူးေျမာ္မာန္ေလ်ာ့ က်န္ေတာ့ပါ၏ အရွင္ဘုရား။

    ဆုေတာင္း
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    ကန္ေတာ့ရေသာ ေကာင္းမႈကံေစတနာတို႔ေၾကာင့္ အပါယ္(၄)ပါး၊ ကပ္(၃)ပါး၊ ရပ္ျပစ္(၈)ပါး၊ ရန္သူမ်ိဳး(၅)ပါး၊ ၀ိပတၱိတရား(၄)ပါး၊ ဗ်သနတရား(၅)ပါး၊ အနာမ်ိဳး(၉၆)ပါး၊ (မိစၧာဒိ႒ိ၆၂-ပါး)တို႔မွ အခါခပ္သိမ္း ကင္းလြတ္ၿငိမ္းသည္သာျဖစ္၍ မဂ္တရား၊ ဖိုလ္တရား၊ နိဗၺာန္ခ်မ္းသာ တရားေတာ္ျမတ္ကို ရပါလို၏ အရွင္ဘုရား။
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    ဩကာသ အဓိပၸါပယ္(Meaning of Okāsa)
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    အခြင့္ေတာင္းျခင္းကို (supplication for permission) ဩကာသဟုေခၚသည္။ ရွိခိုးခြင့္ျပဳပါ(ခြင့္လႊတ္ပါ) ဟုခြင့္ေတာင္းျခင္းျဖစ္သည္။ ႐ိုေသေလးစားေသာအားျဖင့္ ဩကာသ၊ ဩကာသ၊ ဩကာသ ဟု သံုးႀကိမ္ဆိုရသည္။

    Okāsa means the location for the performance of obeisance, adoration, worship and paying respect.

    ၾသကာသ ဘုရားရွိခိုးေရးသားသူ
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    ပုဂံေခတ္၊ ရွင္အရဟံမေထရ္ ေရးသားသည္ဟု ပညာရွင္မ်ား ယူဆၾကသည္။
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    အဂၤလိပ္စာပါ အဓိပၸယ္မ်ား
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    ၁။Order – အလို႔ငွာ ၂။sins – အျပစ္ ၃။accumulated – တိုးပြားမ်ားျပားလာေသာ ၄။evil deeds – အကုသိုလ္

    ၅။physically – ကာယကံ ၆။verbally – ၀စီကံ ၇။mentally – မေနာကံ ၈။eliminated – ပယ္ဖ်က္သည္

    ၉။excused – ခြင့္လြတ္သည္ ၁၀။both folded hands up – လက္အုပ္မိုး ၁၁။forehead – နဖူး ၁၂။worship – ရွိခိုး

    ၁၃။humbly pay homage – မာန္ေလွ်ာ့၊ အရိုအေသေပး ၁၄။Three Precious Jewels – ရတနာျမတ္သံုးပါး ၁၅။pray – ေတာင္းပန္

    ၁၆။my Lord – အရွင္ဘုရား ၁၇။salutation – ဂါရ၀ျပဳျခင္း ၁၈။final existence – ေနာက္ဆံုးဘ၀ ၁၉။attain – ရရွိသည္

    ၂၀။obeisance – ဦးေခါင္းၫႊတ္၍ အ႐ိုအေသေပးျခင္း ၂၁။adoration ၾကည္ညိဳျခင္း
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    [ Copied from – “The Life of The Buddha; Buddhism for Beginner” ]
    { “The Life of The Buddha; Buddhism for Beginner” (အေျခခံဗုဒၶဘာသာ၊ အဂၤလိပ္-ျမန္မာစကားေျပာ) } စာအုပ္မွ ကူးယူေဖာ္ျပအပ္ပါသည္။

    ( NᾹRADA THERA )
    { ျပန္ဆိုသူ – ဦးသန္းလြင္ }
    ( How & Why )
    [ B.Sc., Dip. in English(Y.U.F.L) ? I copy on facebook

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