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  • April 7, 2016 at 6:32 pm #101222
    Blankckv
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    Hello guys!I am new this websibe.I need help.Last year it all good to me.But start this year March I dont know why I had a feeling anxiety fear,Scared when I scripture to buddha.I angry about my friend.Start from this,I angry to my friend so in my mind is angry saying words to that person.But today I read online about blasphemy and OCD thoughts.Some ppl say in word F word but Icknow what that F word mean is.But I read and read whencit come to that F words.I did not say as F word in my mind I just suddenly said F*** to buddha.I didnt mean to say this.Now I really scare.I dont know what to do,Will buddha be forgiven to me?

    April 7, 2016 at 8:59 pm #101226
    Anonymous
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    Dear blank:

    What happened this last March in your life to cause you anxiety?

    Would you like to share more about you, your age, living situation, school/ employment, relationships…?

    anita

    April 7, 2016 at 9:14 pm #101229
    Blankckv
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    Hi anita ok I’m university student.this last march i had a fight with my best friend.It all started.I’ll really angry to my best friend.My mind started saying bad things to that person,But I didnt mean to say this.Everything was good before that fight.Sometimes I dont know I scared of something.I dont know what to do.This makes me really depressed.How can I get out of this thoughts,Will buddha forgive these thoughts.I really didnt want to say these in thought.I didnt mean to say it.

    • This reply was modified 8 years ago by Blankckv.
    April 7, 2016 at 9:29 pm #101237
    Anonymous
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    Dear blank:

    Unfortunately I cannot help you. I suggest that you see a counselor at the university you attend and talk to him/ her about what bothers you. Best wishes to you:
    anita

    April 7, 2016 at 9:37 pm #101239
    Blankckv
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    ok anita this is about what I got anxiety,fear and scare,Because you asked what happened this last March.Sorry about my bad english writing.I really do want to know is.Will buddha be forgive saying F word in thoughts.I didnt mean to it.But I read and read when it come to that F words.I did not say as F word in my mind I just suddenly said F*** to buddha.I didnt mean to say this.But some said that is unforgiveable.Is it ture anita?

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    April 7, 2016 at 11:07 pm #101247
    humour
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    The Buddha absolutely forgives you, blank. The mind is a tool that we have to work with and for the most of us we make ourselves a slave of our mind without even knowing it and in times of deep fear and anxiety, it takes over and troubles you. You are not your mind or those thoughts that are troubling you, blank. As Anita said a counsellor will be able to help you calm your fears and anxiety and fixing the root cause can make this go away.

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    April 7, 2016 at 11:23 pm #101250
    Blankckv
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    Hi! Thanks humour.I thought this blasphemous thoughts are unforgivable.Some ppl said it this kind of thoughts are unforgivable?When I read it It makes me scare,I’ll try fixing this mind,Evernight I read scripture to buddha.But when I started read scripture to buddha my mind started like blasphemous thoughts.This is what happen inside of my mind.Outside of me is dont want to say these words.But my mind automatic said and imagine,Thanks everyone!!!…

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    April 8, 2016 at 12:20 am #101253
    humour
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    Your mind did not generate these thoughts, blank. It is already out, there millions and millions of thoughts. Based on the state of our own mind, we pick or attract certain thoughts. If you have a teacher to help you through this phase it would be wonderful. It could be just mild OCD which can become more during trauma. Many people go through this phase. Try meditation, counselling etc. Just remember these thoughts are not you. Just keep the front and back door of your mind open and let these thoughts come and go. Don’t associate with them. Take care of yourself

    April 8, 2016 at 4:52 am #101259
    Blankckv
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    thanks again humour,I’d been having this problem.I search in google but some people said this is unforgivable.So I started scaring.I dont have this thought last year.It’s all good to me last year.I dont know why I have this problem.Thinking about blasphemous thougts and imagination.I didnt want to do this.I dont want to have this kind problem.Everytimes I’d to be careful not to say this thoughts but sometimes I cant control myself.I will try meditation.I dont have a teacher to help me this.I will try it.Sometimes thefeelings I dont know myself how to put it,It’s really difficult and make me depressed this kind of thoughts are.

    April 8, 2016 at 6:51 am #101264
    Anonymous
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    Dear blank:

    OCD stands for Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. It is one of the disorders that happen as a result of experiencing too much fear when you are young. The brain becomes overwhelmed with fear and that excess fear started the pattern of attaching itself to this or that thought. Fear starts a thought going and the thought scares you. There are online forums dedicated to OCD such as Psych Forums. One of their forums is all about OCD. There is a lot of information there, some of which is correct. Lots of people sharing their OCD experiences. You might find it helpful to visit that forum.

    anita

    April 8, 2016 at 7:00 am #101267
    Blankckv
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    Thanks! anita.What u said of some of which is correct?What is it?May i know?this is unforgivable?

    April 8, 2016 at 7:20 am #101270
    Anonymous
    Guest

    Dear blank:

    You are welcome. I don’t understand what you are asking.

    You asked before if buddha will forgive you for saying the F word and if it is forgivable that you said the F word to buddha. Is this one of your questions?

    If so, what does “buddha” means to you?

    anita

    April 8, 2016 at 7:28 am #101274
    Blankckv
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    Sorry anita.Did I say something wrong?Yes my question is that.I believe in buddha.Of course my religion is buddha.

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    April 8, 2016 at 7:45 am #101278
    Anonymous
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    Dear blank:

    I suspected from the beginning, blank, that you are not sincere in this thread, that you are having fun with it, wanting, maybe to mock people who will take you seriously. This may very well be the case. I answered you so far just in case you are sincere.

    The reason I think you may simply be having fun with this, is that you are asking if the buddha will forgive you for saying the F word. And the fact that you attend university, a higher education institution, and Buddhism is your … religion, and yet you don’t know that buddha doesn’t give a F if you say the F word a thousand times?

    anita

    April 8, 2016 at 8:06 am #101283
    Blankckv
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    Anita why are you saying this?I not having fun with this.I not mocking people.I really have this problem,Your words is hurts me.I know I buddhism.I young and I dont know all.I’m buddhanism.I really dont want to say those kind of words in mind.If I say something wrong.Sorry!.I not having fun with this.I’m suffering this kind of problem.

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