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    jules
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    I’ve been dating an ex veteran for a few months, he was in the army for 20yrs.

    Been getting on extremely well….. an army buddy took her own life and its hit him  really hard. Messaged me saying he needed some time to himself, as it’s really affected him mentally, then blocked me on all social media and the phone.

    I totally understand when a friend kills themselves, I can’t understand however how dreadful the affect on your mental health is being the army, so the 2 combined is too much to comprehend.

    Q is he coming back

    #369503
    anita
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    Dear jules:

    He told you that he needs some time for himself because he is grieving his military friend’s suicide. If I assume correctly-  if you told him that it is not okay with you that he takes time to himself and you called him and messaged him on social media, then I will understand why he blocked you from his phone and from all his social media accounts.

    If you told him that it is okay with you that he takes time to himself, and respecting his wishes,  you did not call him or message him- then I don’t understand why he blocked you.

    Which one of these two options is what happened?

    anita

     

    #369512
    jules
    Participant

    Hello Anita, he left then sent me a cellphone message, saying he wanted time to himself….I replied but he had already blocked me on everything, I am quite sure he would have already blocked me on his phone too, so wouldn’t have seen my reply. We have never had a crossed word, I’m totally in bits, & extremely confused

    #369514
    anita
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    Dear jules:

    There are websites that list homicides and perhaps suicides in a particular area, for example death index. com/ california/ los angeles, and homicide. latimes. com (no spaces) lists such deaths for the area of Los Angeles, California. It may be possible for you to find out if what he claims happened, really did happen.

    From the little you shared, seems to me that he is not coming back (the answer to your question), that he ghosted you, seems to me. He gave you a reason, or an excuse, real or made up and … blocked you. I am sorry. Again, this is what seems to me, one individual in these forums, what makes sense to me.

    anita

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