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    Dustin Soliday
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    Hello everyone.

    I’m a study-hard, physically fit 20 year old white male at Purdue University studying Aerospace Engineering. I’ve had difficulty in forming relationship through high school and college, and I would appreciated to learn from the community to what degree why that may be.

    I always try to make friends. But I feel that I have a trait that negatively displays who I am. It creates a connotation of abnormality. I was born without adult teeth. All I have is baby teeth. Imagine a full-grown adult with huge spaces between their teeth and some even missing because the teeth are so small.

    I understand that’s it a genetic defect. I also understand that it’s something unique about me. And I’m thankful for that. So my question is this:

    To what degree does society not like to speak or be with those who are not “normal” looking? How much does it affect my relationships compared to the average person? And what is your honest opinion about someone who looks different?

    Your help in understanding the degree of how my defect has affected my social life will be greatly appreciated by the community. Thanks Everyone!

    #67850
    Rebecca Jones
    Participant

    If you’re a good, like-able person, which I’m sure you are, then people will look beyond your physical appearance and only judge you for your personality. Keep being you and keep being friendly and people won’t pay attention, it’s not that weird.
    I think a lot of people may be judgmental at first and feel uncomfortable, that’s just something you’ll have to learn to deal with.
    When it comes to making genuine friends then if they are really genuine to you, they won’t care at all about what you look like and that’s what matters.
    You can look at this as a curse or as a blessing.

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    Janice
    Participant

    Hey Dustin, I think a lot of people will be a little uncomfortable or taken aback initially, but as Rebecca says, if you are building good friendships, they’ll like you just like you are. Do you act self-consciously or worry about your teeth when you’re engaging in interactions with others? If you’re comfortable with your teeth and act confidently, others will get over their initial discomfort or judgement much faster.
    There’s this quote by Dr. Suess which I really like: “Those who care don’t matter and those who matter don’t care.” Trust that you’ll find the right people.

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