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  • #88018
    jock
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    Cant wait for this shit year to finish and start fresh next year

    I’ve got the same feeling. 2015 was a bad year for me too. Funny how we are ruled by calendars and time. I mean in effect I’m wasting the last 5 or 6 weeks until new years day.
    May we both find some clarity, focus and happiness in 2016! 🙂

    #88028
    Anonymous
    Guest

    Dear Adam:

    Sorry to read you are drinking heavily at nights. I suggested to you last to learn from your experience and still suggesting that you do: it is from the learning of past that we can make the future better (and use our time wisely in the present). Nothing magical about 2016, about that number. Make the magic NOW: learn now, something, a little bit today!

    The information is in your emotions.

    anita

    #88157
    adam
    Participant

    Thanks anita….just hard as i at least now I’ve slipped into depression.Which was the problem that cause the break up from beginning of this year.I have learnt from this and just want to heal and move on asap

    #88158
    Jan T
    Participant

    Hi Adam,

    You said you wanted a “kick in the a__.” What would it take for you to do that for yourself? There’s no need to wait for the year to end. Time is just an invention anyway. There’s no time like the present. Why drag out your anguish? It sounds like you really want to feel better, so take the steps you need to take.

    It might be helpful to seek some professional counseling (individual or group) if you are depressed. That can be very helpful, whereas taking depressants (like alcohol) only makes things worse.

    Would it help to have a “con” on your list for this woman? How about that she ran to another man when things got tough in your relationship? That is neither trusting nor trustworthy behavior.

    I feel for your situation–don’t mean to sound blunt–love is a tough emotion to sort out. I once wasted 5 years of my life on someone who couldn’t make a commitment to me. He broke my heart many times but I kept feeling like I loved him and I took him back every time he showed up at my door. I pined for him in the meantime. What a shame–a waste of time and such agony!

    I finally realized I was in love with a guy I hadn’t seen for 5 years. He changed his behavior toward me, but I failed to recognize or admit it because I was stuck on the intensity of the love I had felt for him that was established in the beginning.

    Once I realized he wasn’t who he had pretended to be in the beginning, it made it easier for me to move on.

    It may sound trite but it’s true, my life is so much better now that I left him behind. I had no idea things could be this good.

    I do wish you well. Why not give yourself the kick you need so you can start the new year with a good outlook having conquered (or at least started to work on) your depression? You deserve to be happy. Don’t beat yourself up. Do some juicing and be good to your body, too, while you’re working on this instead of burdening it. It will help turn your depression around!

    Take care! Jan

    #88165
    Anonymous
    Guest

    * Dear Jan:
    What a delight it was to read your post. Didn’t see you here before. I hope you post more! I like your clarity and good sense!
    anita

    #88443
    adam
    Participant

    THank you Jan,made a lot of good sense to me much appreciated your views to anita..

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