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  • June 6, 2014 at 5:51 am #58233
    Jan
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    I m dating with a married man few month ago. And I couldn’t release myself to be happy, even I cant sleep well since the day start.
    A big question for myself, I know there is no future for us, and he told me before, he will never divorce with his wife.
    I try myself to be away from him, I try to play my mood in front of him, I try to be cool for every things that he done to me.
    But, still he give me hopes. No one can run away from love, but I feel suffering, I hate myself being so cheap

    June 6, 2014 at 6:51 am #58236
    Inky
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    Hi Jan,

    In the old days they would send young people to a European tour after a heartache. Or summering with family friends (which turns into 9 months). Obviously, we can’t usually do that, but the intent was clear. Get physically away to clear your head. Get new sites to clear your head. Do something different to clear your head. Meet new people to clear your head.

    Then when you return from your one great or many little adventures, you will be that much wiser, that much more experienced. If he took up, say, 60% of your Energy, several road trips, Comicons, Renaissance Festivals, Match.com dates later, he might only take up 30%.

    My advice? Dilute, dilute, dilute his influence until he is a mere breeze in your hair.

    June 6, 2014 at 10:07 am #58252
    Kelly
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    I recommend the book “How to Break Your Addiction to a Person” by Howard Halpern. He has worked with many patients involved in affairs and helped them to break free of them. It was an invaluable tool to help me get out of a toxic relationship of my own.

    Please love yourself first. You are not “cheap”. <3

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