This might be a little old but I felt inclined to share my thoughts and experiences on this. I know what it feels like to be insecure with myself, negative, emotionally dependent and everything in between. It feels like life is spiraling out of control and sometimes you feel like the only way you get a hold of your life again is by someone else fixing it for you. We blame others for our problems and in turn the cycle of negativity continues.

I found that that the best solution for me was to get away from it all. Get away from my life as I knew it. From all the people I knew, and from all the places I go.

Andre, travel, alone. Go somewhere you’ve never been, meet and talk to people you’ve never met, do new things you never expected you would do. Find yourself. Trust me, I’m in the same boat, and I’m trying to find myself. I found that travelling helps me find who I really am and I discover new things about myself everytime I travek alone. It helps me get rid of that codependency, obsessiveness and all those negative feelings.