Hi Kate,

Please don’t take this the wrong way but I have to agree with Buddha that what you did is considered emotional cheating. To go from being just friends to a proposal prior to you breaking up with your ex bf is definitely cheating. He wouldn’t have proposed to you if he didn’t sense that you were romantically interested in him. Now even if you waited to breakup with your ex bf before accepting the proposal it’s still cheating. Also, I find it very unusual for a guy to make a proposal without any sort of intimacy.

Whatever it is, I hope you’re happy with your decision and wish you guys the best

😀

Hi back to you, Dear Kate:

Thank you for checking on me. I am fine and dandy in this grey and sometimes rainy day. Yesterday I saw the amazing sight of a hawk coming down on a chicken right outside my window. It was one of the neighbor’s chickens. At first I wanted to run and save the chicken.. but then the hawk has a right to eat.

How are you, what is happening in your life these days?

anita

Dear Kate:

Good to read that your career and relationship is progressing well, and that you are moving in the forward direction!

anita