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January 6, 2018 at 6:43 am #185333
AnonymousGuestDear Alex:
I understand your concern. As I wrote earlier, it is important that you protect yourself from any more abuse, that you make yourself unavailable for more. If it takes no contact, make it so, is my suggestion.
If you are indeed close with your stepbrother, if he is close with you, the two of you will be able to remain close regardless of your mother input to him, I am thinking. The two of you can agree to not talk about her and continue your closeness.
You mentioned seeing a therapist. I hope you do. It is difficult to start adulthood when the adults in your life so far failed you. And they failed you. Yet healing is possible for you and your motivation to get better is evident.
Post again anytime you would like.
anita
January 29, 2019 at 11:33 am #277625
AlexParticipantIt’s been over a year since this article, Love to all the people that helped me get back on my feet. Life’s a lot better now.
Kind regards Alex
January 29, 2019 at 1:07 pm #277655
AnonymousGuestDear Alex:
Welcome back to your thread over a year since your last post!
If you would like, please do share about your life in the last year. I will be away from the computer soon for the next sixteen hours or so and will be glad to read from you when I am back.
anita
January 29, 2019 at 1:58 pm #277665
BrandyParticipantLove right back to you, Alex! I’m so happy to read your post!
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February 11, 2019 at 10:05 am #279725
AlexParticipantTo everyone thanks for all the support, and love be with you all. I have had ups and downs. I fell into an abusive relationship which ended around a month ago. I lost a lot of mutual friends as they did not believe anything that I said, there were a lot of untrue rumors spread about me by my previous partner. All my mutual friends took her side even though I was nothing but kind and supportive. I do not take the role of victim often, but in this case I was used and it drained all my energy again. It unfortunately left a blemish on an otherwise positive period. It’s been hard to lose so many friends and for them to assume that because I am a man that I must be in the wrong. But other than that I am happy to read your messages things have mostly been positive and things look up <3
Kind regards Alex
February 11, 2019 at 12:36 pm #279781
AnonymousGuestDear Alex:
I am sorry to read that you were in a recent abusive relationship and that your friends assumed you were in the wrong and your ex girlfriend in the right because you are a man and she is a woman. I sure hope you get to know the next woman in your life thoroughly, make sure she is honest and treats you respectfully, not abusively. As you are with her. Glad you posted again, more than a year since you stated this thread.
anita
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