Been with my partner 4 years. In August she was diagnosed with stage 3 lung cancer. I’ve taken care of her every need since then and always even before. Her family is one hour away by interstate. Hem mother talked to her every day. Her two sisters called her when she was diagnosed. One sister has since called again and visited 4 times. Her astranged brother called once. Her mom visits off and on. But I have been her the entire time.
When diagnosed, she put my name on her car title and loan and a 50k insurance policy in case of her death , that I would be left with a nice car and some money to help me out. I would have to pay off the loan which would leave me approximately 30k.
Her mother , while already quite well off would get everything else (a much bigger sum) to take care of her debt and burial and still have much extra to do with as she needed.
Christmas time came and I had to go to my fathers house 2 hours away since he would be alone otherwise after losing my mother in January to cancer. She lead me to believe her family would not be coming down to be with her which
Enraged me to the point I said ” they don’t give a shit about you” how can they do you this way knowing what condition you are in? Well , this was not the case at all. She didn’t tell me the truth. Her family was coming down. I don’t know why she lied about it. All I know is now she’s accusing me of being disrespectful to her. How could I say that to her. In her condition? Also , she went and changed all her assets to her mother. Car my policy she signed over to me. Everything and broke up with me. Said all I ever wanted was her car and money.
I’ve been with her through this whole ordeal. Every appt. every biopsy. Every test. Every symptom. I’ve shopped for anything she remotely said she wanted. Found hats , scarves she could wear to work as her hair got thinner and thinner. Cooked for her all hours of the night when she woke up hungry. Went to the store all hours if she needed something. Me! Not her family. Called the dr when she was in so much pain we didn’t know what to do. Sat in the ER for 12 hours to get a second opinion. Found another surgeon when we wanted a second opinion. Now it’s almost time for surgery and I’ve been kicked to the curb. She claims after surgery she will go to her mothers to “recup” assuming she survives surgery. She’s having her mother move all her furniture that has any $$ value out of my home this week so there will be no doubt her mom won’t have it if she wanted it. Which , by the way , mother already said she did not want.
I feel like I’ve been done so wrong. It’s not about the car or money. It’s about being shut out from someone I love so much. Someone I’ve cried and prayed over so hard. And now accused of being a gold digger. I’m just so heart broken.