Happy Saturday everyone! 🙂

Wanted to share something,

A few months back I had to decided to sign-up on a dating website. In 7 years I haven’t really gotten to know anyone in my town and wanted to see what was out, the dating seen and it didn’t/doesn’t matter Male ore female. To me, I genuinely wanted to get to know people. It doesn’t matter the dating site name(s) but I signed up for one that needed to be classy and def not TINDER or some hook-up app. Now,  I do understand there are going to be people who judge me, like for example last night while broadcasting my live-feed someone had posted a link on my chatbox. Not that it matters but I after an entire month on the dating site and trying to be scammed for money, a man claiming to be from another country, asked me to go shopping for him and tried to give me his – so called banking information to reimburse me, luckily I didn’t entirely fall for that trap. So after all that mess and people just on there sending messages about this and that, from my personal experiences from chatting with people on there it’s a foreigners playground to scam women out of money. Not to say the reverse hasn’t happened to the men but from every single message I had received, you could tell it was a ploy to scam or just hook-up.

For some people who want to judge me, like one did last night while I was broadcasting. Saying that I’m a wh@re for being on a  dating site, you obviously don’t know me well at all then because I don’t have sex for money and never have. I have nothing to prove but I can sleep very well at night, knowing I’ve never slept around for money. Easy to assume on any dating site but if sex is all I was looking for, I wouldn’t have signed up on a dating site. I would have signed up on Tinder or back page etc.

Either way, I’m glad I signed up and got to see what was going on but that site is a no no. I signed up for another one a few weeks back and found some relatively normal people in my town, who are nice and respectful. Yes, I did come across some fruit loops testing the waters but I politely just don’t take them very seriously. To sum things up, out of these websites and my experiences with them, the dating scene these days is all about sex/hooking up after meeting someone right away. Not my style and def not safe at all but I have to say, it was a nice learning adventure and comical one at that lol. Although it was nice to connect with people on an intellectual level and listen to their stories.

Would like to end by saying, stay true to who are and you don’t ever have to feel degraded by anyone. When you’re clean, you’re clean and can go about life with your head held high. Let people assume all they want about you, as it’s their mistake and not yours. I hope you all are doing well, happy and In love… It’s so nice to see that a few of you on here, are so in love, happy and blossoming. Beautiful! <3

For those who are having a hard time etc… Keep your chin and spirit up, as your soul is unique, beautiful and loved.

As far as meeting new people, I think I’m good for now. It seems that something else it meant to be, to head my way soon, as the universe has always seemed to guide me in the right direction, without having to sign-up on such dating sites but it’s ok. Many of my friends are on dating sites and enjoy it but for me, it’s never been a long term thing. I’ve met and made friends with so many wonderful people from traveling and from work, so I have a loving & supportive circle as is. Grateful beyond measure!

Hope you all continue to have a wonderful rest of your day! Sending you an abundance of positivity, love and light! 🙂

– Marie