My ex girlfriend told me I’ve not been there for her and I’ve shown her a different side of me. I have spoken to friends and family and they all say i have done nothing wrong but I fear they just support me because they are my friends. It would be amazing to get an opinion from a neutral perspective.

it wasn’t even a week ago so all the feelings are still so fresh. The dynamic of the relationship was always loving between the both of us but when the relationship ended I was left heartbroken yet she seemed fine.

I have recently moved countries to study for a year leaving behind my girlfriend family and friends, an important detail is she had an abortion 4 days before ending things. We had been having disagreements where I didn’t like her going to clubs by herself and we fell out one night about that. I woke up the next day to find she hadn’t messaged at all and so I tried to call and no answer, I called one of my close friends to tell him what was going on and his girlfriend got involved and told me that last night all the photos of me on my girlfriends social media were gone. And that it looked like she was being unfaithful. I had finally got hold of her asked her what was going on and what was being said, and I explain how I was upset by this, yet she was angry that I had spoken with my friend and his girlfriend who she doesn’t like, which I read out to my friend.

I apologised for my friend’s girlfriend getting involved even though it wasn’t my intention. But she broke up with me and said that she has seen a different side to me and also that I haven’t been been there for her recently which I couldn’t have done more, I was always the one initing contact and making sure she was ok.