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  • October 26, 2018 at 12:07 pm #233565
    Snoopy
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    I hope someone help me to how to talk with him.  I’m not good communicator nor English is my 2nd language.

    We have seen over 3 years.  A few weeks ago, he told me that his money is missing multiple times.  I didn’t think he accused me and I said I dont know anything about it.  He said if not me then his mother did it… but of course he thinks it was me.

    I have missing a few values items and money before but he said I misplaced, no thief in this house.  Now suddenly, his money is missing then I’m the thief?

    He told me that he wont believe anything I said , cannot trust me…. really really sad but he said I’m sad.  I dont understand why he thinks I did? Because he trust his mom?

    At I said I lost my belongs but never ever i thought he did….

    My family is here so he comes my house and nice to them.  But he doesn’t trust me anymore.  Confused…

    I wish I can find his money or I could approve my innocence but nothing I can do.

    He us my best friend for long time and I dont wsnt to lose him like this.  I’d rather breakup him as cheating me or hate me some reason but not lost trust….

    I’m thinking that write a letter him.  I will write a letter tonight and hope someone help me my english.

    So sad and no bright light could see end of my tunnel.

    Thank you for reading.

     

    October 26, 2018 at 2:14 pm #233589
    Anonymous
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    Dear Snoopy:

    It is a difficult experience to be falsely accused. I suppose now that he doesn’t trust you, or now that he says he doesn’t trust you (I don’t know if he really believes you stole his money or he is making it up), he is no longer your best friend. Friends trust friends.

    If you want to write a letter to him and would like help with the letter writing, you can post a first draft of it here and I will give you my input. I will be away from the computer for about fourteen hours. If you post that draft, I will reply to you when I am back.

    Maybe other members will reply to you before I am back. I hope the issue is somehow resolved and that you feel better soon.

    anita

    October 26, 2018 at 7:27 pm #233613
    Snoopy
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    Dear Anita

    Thank you for your reply.  I really really appreciated.
    Here is my letter to him.

    I’m sorry that I broke your trust in that way.  I do care and respect you.
    I really do not know how to express how I feel.
    I do care and he is my treasure.  I would like to have a chance to re-build our relationship again.  I’m not saying “forget about all”.  I just do not walk away from this.  I do not want to close my chapter with him.

    I really do not know how to write him.
    I understand that and you are right about friends trust friends…..
    Even though he won’t trust me, I still believe him that he won’t take my belongs and money.  (which I told you that missing my belongs and money.)

    I wish you are here and I could talk you.

    October 27, 2018 at 5:49 am #233639
    Anonymous
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    Dear Snoopy:

    I am not there but we can still communicate until you get clarity. It will just take a longer time, maybe a few days. I need to understand:

    1. Did you accuse him for stealing your belongings and money? If you did, what was his response?

    2. Did he accuse you of stealing his money after you accused him (#1)?

    3. Does he currently believe that you stole his money and how does he currently behave toward you?

    anita

     

    October 27, 2018 at 2:09 pm #233761
    Snoopy
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    Dear Anita.  Thank you for reply and taking your time to talk with me.

    1.  I’ve never accuse him for missing my belongings.  I said missing~!!! and he said I may miss placed.
    2.  No, my belongings are missing over year ago.  Once a while I said still missing!!!  but never accused anyone.
    3.  Last time he said that he has zero trust and not believe anything about me.  He is okay here there cause of my family in town but not sure.  He is NOT same as before and I’m sure still looking for truth = my confession?  But I DID NOT take his money.  I make money and no need to take anyone’s money.
    We see each other once a week.  He come by to see my family.  helping my kitchen project etc….
    But I know he is NOT believe me.  🙁

    Thank you Anita.

    October 28, 2018 at 8:57 am #233843
    Anonymous
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    Dear Snoopy:

    You are welcome. Unfortunately the friendship with him is over. It is a thing of the past. I don’t think there is anything you can say to cause him to trust you. If he believes you stole from him, he probably believes you lie to him as well. When trust is gone, for whatever reason, it is gone and so is a friendship that once was.

    I hope you feel better soon and post again, if you want.

    anita

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