How do I get over old issues

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December 15, 2017 at 3:55 am #182301

Poppyxo
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Hi Astrid,

I think cheating on someone is a little more than a mistake. In my eyes it’s a poor part of a persons character. Someone that loves you, would never cheat. Ever.

December 15, 2017 at 3:56 am #182303

Astrid
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Hi Poppyxo

I would tell her at the time to leave him. But more than a year has gone by now and I have seen him changed. I just can’t get over the hurt.

Astrid

December 15, 2017 at 2:29 pm #182437

Joseph2
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“He also said to me that he use to think she is hotter than me and that he thought I was boring and clingy and that was the reason he cheated on me.” I’d walk away from this one, but that’s just me, because unless you do some things with your life to make you and it more exciting you will always be a bore to him, but you will experience a new life and a way of living

December 16, 2017 at 4:01 am #182469

Anonymous
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Dear Astrid:

A year has passed and he has been loving and faithful to you, correct? He has changed his ways, and so, I do hope you do “get over old issues”-

as I suggested in my last (longer) post to you, a past hurt from before you met him may be fueling your current hurt, keeping it going and going. This is the case with everyone: when a deep past hurt is not resolved, it keeps showing up, keeps letting us know it is still there.

anita

December 16, 2017 at 4:02 am #182471

Anonymous
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