Dear Astrid:
A year has passed and he has been loving and faithful to you, correct? He has changed his ways, and so, I do hope you do “get over old issues”-
as I suggested in my last (longer) post to you, a past hurt from before you met him may be fueling your current hurt, keeping it going and going. This is the case with everyone: when a deep past hurt is not resolved, it keeps showing up, keeps letting us know it is still there.
anita