Hi everyone, i have been with my partner for 2 years. I constantly think he will end things or find someone better or restart something again with his ex. I want to learn how to relax and just let things be instead of being so uptight. At the beginning he was understanding about how I found it hard to trust but I still have trouble and I think he’s getting fed up. Prior to him I was in a relationship with someone who dumped me over and over, never said I love you nothing.  He used me for money everything.  But I could never be myself with him. He put me down all the time, I wasn’t smart enough or thin or outgoing.  He wanted me to change who I was. He assaulted me and I lost all confidence in myself. Then I met my current and he has been nothing but great. I can be myself with him, we click. But my insecurities are ruining it and I’m worried he will have enough of me. This is what I do.  If I don’t hear from him I think he doesn’t love me. We went on holiday and any attractive woman that he spoke to I became insecure about. My guy is friendly and they take it the wrong way. He wants to join a club and I believe he will meet someone more exciting. I feel like I’m just average and couldn’t compare to someone glamorous. I worry if he gets a text and think it’s a ex or someone else. My guy has heaps of female friends. What can I do. I have never had so much love from someone and sometimes I become overwhelmed that it will disappear. I just want to enjoy him.

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