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September 8, 2024 at 9:29 am #437127AnonymousInactive
Dear Anita,
Are there any questions I should ask my inner child to help me connect ? Before I start my new social life I feel like I should be complete within myself . I won’t be looking for anything from anyone but to socialize .
September 8, 2024 at 10:06 am #437128anitaParticipantDear Shandrea:
Good idea, to ask your inner child a few questions so to prepare for a new social life. Here are a few questions you can ask your inner child: (1) what traits do you like most about people (ex., being respectful, being of a certain age, being talkative, or quiet…). Another question: what traits do you strongly dislike about people? Another: what do you feel about meeting new people (anxious? Excited? etc.)?
Maybe your inner child would like to type her answers through your fingers right here, in your thread. Also, you can ask her more questions (if she is open to it).
anita
September 8, 2024 at 12:05 pm #437133AnonymousInactiveDear Anita,
This is my first time answering a question like this .
I like Honesty, Close to my age , talkative is good too , I’d choose a honest friend with good intentions over a kind person .
I strongly dislike bullying of any kind and manipulation , also I don’t know what to call it when people tolerate people because they are afraid to be alone I don’t want that either .
I am excited to meet new honest people with good intentions
September 8, 2024 at 6:49 pm #437138anitaParticipantI will reply Mon morning.
anita
September 8, 2024 at 8:08 pm #437140AnonymousInactiveDear Anita ,
I been on this website since 2021 and never noticed that at the top of page it says ,Join the Forums to Connect, Share, Help and Inspire. I thought this might have been your job that’s why I asked the other day . Without even noticing it I joined the forums to connect, share, and maybe in the future help and inspire. I need to get clear on my intentions too . I been living in survival mode/auto pilot for so long , Everything is so rushed and not enjoyable. What attracted me to this website was the post from real people and the challenges they over came . It gave me hope for my future.
Since Im here to connect , Did you finally get a full night of sleep ?
I will respond after work Monday – week days are busy for me
September 9, 2024 at 6:48 am #437927anitaParticipantDear Shandrea:
“I like Honesty… an honest friend with good intentions… I strongly dislike bullying of any kind and manipulation, also I don’t know what to call it when people tolerate people because they are afraid to be alone I don’t want that either“- this is who you are: a strong woman who stands for Honesty, Good Intentions, and Courage (not being afraid to be alone), and against Bullying, Manipulation, and Accepting Abuse (for fear of being alone).
“Without even noticing it I joined the forums to connect, share, and maybe in the future help and inspire“- you have been inspiring me for a long time, Shandrea!
“I’ve been living in survival mode/auto pilot for so long. Everything is so rushed and not enjoyable. What attracted me to this website was the post from real people and the challenges they over came. It gave me hope for my future“- I am glad you are here, and I hope that the survival mode changes to more of a living- enjoying mode.
“Since I’m here to connect , Did you finally get a full night of sleep?“- well, last night I did not lie awake, not for hours, not even for a moment. When I woke up, I felt that I slept enough and that it was probably 7 am or so. But it was 4 am. So, good to sleep through but woke up too early.
anita
September 9, 2024 at 12:00 pm #437952AnonymousInactiveDear Anita,
It’s good to hear that you got enough sleep last night . I wish you many many more good night sleeps !!!
In two weeks I will be starting therapy again this is my second therapist the last one a year ago said she was switching careers and it took me a whole year to try again .
September 9, 2024 at 12:14 pm #437955anitaParticipantDear Shandrea:
Thank you for wishing me many good night sleeps!!!
Starting therapy in 2 weeks, that’s exciting: I hope that the therapist will be as good at her (or his) job as you deserve!
anita
September 9, 2024 at 12:43 pm #437962AnonymousInactiveDear Anita,
I hope so too !
September 9, 2024 at 12:55 pm #437966anitaParticipantConnecting, Shandrea, that’s what we are doing, connecting and inspiring each other, I like that! (I will soon be away from the computer for the rest of the day).
anita
September 9, 2024 at 5:07 pm #437976AnonymousInactiveDear Anita,
I enjoy connecting with you too . You inspire me that’s why I return . Since 2021 you have been inspiring me . Thank you for that . And if I inspired you thanks that was a Compliment!
September 9, 2024 at 5:25 pm #437977anitaParticipantDear Shandrea:
You did inspire me, you do inspire me: your inner strength, your resilience, your dedication to your children (both), your self-respect, knowing what’s right and what’s wrong and choosing to do what’s right and.. what I just typed came quickly to me, I typed as quickly as the thought went through my mind.
And thank you for being inspired by me (I am smiling right now because of you)!
anita
September 10, 2024 at 1:01 pm #438008AnonymousInactiveDear Anita ,
I’m proud of myself .It was hard .
September 10, 2024 at 1:06 pm #438009anitaParticipantI am proud of you too, Shandrea, I truly am!
anita
September 13, 2024 at 2:28 am #438076AnonymousInactiveDear Anita,
But today I asked a friend to help me look for a mom friendly job . I don’t ask anyone for anything, Anita I am really doing my best .
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