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    marion
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    please some advice! I have been married for a decade. we dont have children. my husband and I married in a registry office, we made the decision and went ahead without anyone’s consent. (ie families). when we had a party to celebrate, none of his family attended despite our inviting them. my family attended. i sold my property and we moved to his country. his parents demanded that i give my husband some money from the proceeds of my property (he did not have any savings or assets, only debts). i bought a house in his country in both our names from the proceeds of my property. his family totally ostracised me. over the years i found that i was being pushed out of work, finally unable to get a job, told by the locals to go back to my country and they did not want foreigners taking their jobs etc I was harassed and then i was drug raped and when i asked his family for help they told me to go back to my country and that my husband would be fine without me. so i left. he joined me later in my country to their chagrin. now they are saying that i am mental and that i imagined being raped and harassed. i cannot find work, have no money as i sold the house to fund returning to my country, my family have joined in with them and turned against me. I feel a divorce may be the answer. to get away from his family and my family to leave me alone. practically, i do not have a job, i dont have any assets, i have no money.

    #81635
    Anonymous
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    Dear marionet:

    I am trying to clarify a point that may not be significant: you sold the house you bought in his country on both your names so to finance you going back to your country alone, and you did. Does that mean your husband agreed to you selling the house in his country, the house his name was on as well as yours, so that you will leave his country alone and go back to yours?

    Where has he been in all this- the rape, his family’s harrasment of you- what was his input?

    anita

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