I met my guy a few years back, because my niece was dating his cousin. He lives in Orlando, Fl and I live in Chicago, IL . Anytime he comes in to visit I would see him at family parties but never really looked at him because I thought I didn’t have a chance because I was over weight Then, this past November they got married so we all stood up in the wedding. He came up to me and started making conversation through the whole day and by the reception, we completely hit it off! Before the night was over and we were all getting ready to go to our cars, he came up to me laughing saying,” Hey when are you taking me home with you”. I laughed it off and we hugged. He was drunk and I was tired.
So after a few months I asked my niece to give me his number because she was really close to him because of her new hubby being so close with his cousin. I called him up sometime in early April, we talked until the sun rise. We literally talk for hours and hours the first two weeks. It was great to laugh and flirt with extremely good looking man who looked very close to a George Clooney. I didn’t think too much about it at this time because I was just starting to lose my weight and was heavy at this time. I have loss 70 pounds since the wedding and looking hot again, But, months passed and we talk every day in some form or every few days consistently.
Then, in July I drove up to Atlanta, GA to see my best friend and he lives in Orlando so we met up each of us meeting each other half way for one evening. We had a great time and had breakfast the next morning after cuddling all morning. We talk through some sort of communication whether its texting, talking, everyday or every other day.
All we do is laugh and flirt and talk about what’s going on in each of our lives. Now, he is coming in for Christmas and staying through New Years so it will be nice to be with him for the Holidays. When I talk about our future, he is always saying, that the odds we end up together are bleak. Also, if I were to meet someone he would understand because we live over 1100 miles away from each other and he wants someone in his life on a daily basis not just every couple of months. I explained I would move down there within 2 years because he is not willing to relocate. I need advice on this because he has made it clear if we were in the same area we would be together. People say how could you fall for someone you seen 2 times in a year. Also, he isn’t on the same level as me, he likes me but I am more into him. I need to know am I holding on to a hope or just chasing a foolish love? Is there hope this could workout? I decided I will wait and see when he comes to visit this Christmas and New Years, if we don’t emotionally connect on a mutual ground and make some sort of commitment I will let it go and just take it as a casual thing and have no hope for a future relationship! I need Advice!!!