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  • February 21, 2017 at 11:57 am #128705
    Harold
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    Hi all,
    I am wanting concise and practical advice. I have been in 9 months relationships, suddenly my girl friend decided to break up with me.

    It has been a 3 months since she broke up with me. She is now sending me messages at least twice a week to find out how I am doing. I hardly send her message. Last Sunday, I asked her a question: if we were given a chance to fall in love again, would we take it? I would, would you ? She replied : Harold its time for both of us to move on…looking back wishing everything to come is only going to hurt you and you hurting yourself by wanting something that won’t happen and wishing it come back

    Friends is all I want.things won’t be the same. Then we discussed a bit.

    I thought, this conversation I had with her will kind of push her away.

    Here she is still sending me messages. I seem not understand her intentions and why can’t she stay away from me as she said it is time for both to move on.

    Your practical comments and advices will be highly appreciated.

    Harold

    February 21, 2017 at 12:31 pm #128733
    Nina Sakura
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    Dear Harold

    Nope, I am really sorry. But she isn’t in love with you and doesn’t want to get back together in a relationship. She wants to be friends with you though and that is why she is keeping up with this messaging stuff. When she says, move on and let’s be friends, take it at face value. I know it’s hard but that’s how it appears to me.

    If you need her to give you space, tell her you need time to deal with your own feelings.

    It took me about a year to be able to text normally with ex. This just friends after breakup thing only works if it died from both ends and there is enough space.

    If being in touch with her is hard for you, make things clear to her.

    Regards
    Nina

    February 27, 2017 at 11:41 am #130695
    Harold
    Participant

    Hi Nina

    I very much appreciate your direct comments. You have a point. I have to accept the fact that she won’t come back.

    Thank you again for such exact advise I wanted.

    Regards

    Harold

    February 28, 2017 at 4:16 pm #131781
    Lonely88
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    Hi anyone I need advise I have been talking to this girl for about 6 months I didn’t take her serious until later on but she agreed to take things slow so one day she gets mad at me and doesn’t text me back until the next day so I was mad over that so I took while to reply back so she than later text to meet up with her n friends at the bar but I didn’t go so 2 days later I text her and she hit me with that some guy text her and she decided to talk to him well I reached out to her and she said that she wanted to see how things went with the other guy so I decided to accept her decision and maybe 2weeks later she text me but I didn’t text back 2days later and she had said she wanted to tell me but that she had forgot and didn’t matter any more so we kept texting each other for 2days n then she ignored me and wouldn’t text back or answer my calls so I went to go see her and we talked but she wouldn’t really open up I had asked why did she text,me if she’s acting like this didn’t say none then I asked if she talking to someone and she said yes I asked her why don’t she sees how I’m proving to her of how much I love her and then I asked if she still likes me and she said she’s not gona tell me I told her I would rather get hurt with the truth than a lie but just kept quite .I told her I know u still like me but she kept silent so now I don’t know what too do

    February 28, 2017 at 6:59 pm #131835
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