Hey good people 🙂 I’m writing you, because this morning, my mum and I had a conversation about my relationship. I’m 21 and still living with my parents, and my boyfriend (24) is with his parents. For about a month and a half, he and I should go abroad to continue our studies. That’s when my mum’s complaints start.

She is worried that love and college don’t go together at all. She didn’t ever finished one, but she thinks that. And then, she is worried that because of him I won’t finish my college, or I’ll be in some kind of trouble… She told me I’m egoistic, because I’m not thinking how my behavior affects her, since she is worrying. Also, if my boyfriend and I go out for one day, and then also the following one, she is thinking we are going out too much because it’s a two days in a row.

Right now, we are having free time, and we want to use it. I know that we can’t go out non-stop when college starts, and that college duties often come first.

Also, she is telling me that it’s too early that I love someone this much. I should go out and be free on my own, and the truth is I don’t feel trapped in this relationship. He and I are doing our best to respect each other and to understand and talk about us and our obstacles. He has a lots of qualities and I love to spend my time with him.

Now, I’m confused. Is it wrong to be in love in my age, and to want nice things with him in the future (like family, our life)? I’m not saying it a 100% chance about it, life knows to surprise us, but is it wrong to wish for that and to spend quality time together?

My mum was betrayed from my father, and she doesn’t believe to him or men at all.

I’m just living my life, and trying to enjoy it, but she is constantly worrying about me, and I’m just a normal person to my self…