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    Sat Nam

    It’s been 3 months since I last write on here and I wish I could say I’m better but I actually think I’m doing worse. My story is just that…a story, but why am I clinging onto it as if it did me any good? I am struggling to just get by now, my days have become cloudy. I feel a deep sense of rejection, shame, & guilt and really want to push past all of this. Today I cried and cried while my mother was on the phone, I told her “mom, I swear this is not how I want to feel but this IS how I feel.” I guess I might not be trying enough or this pain is just too great to bear that the grieving will take much longer than the 6 months it has been. I have 2 little boys under my wings, so much I am thankful for, but even with all of the good I am struggling. Ending up being a single mom TWICE is not at all what I had envisioned for myself, but this second time around has been by far the most beautiful AND most heart breaking of my experiences. I toss and turn between these 2 feelings…love & pain. I am stuck not knowing how to let him, the lies & betrayal, and the lack of interest to be involved in his son’s life really go. Is it really a matter of time and no matter how much I do right now TIME is the best medicine?


    hi SN,

    Time heals us but emotions have to be dealt with early or else it leads to depression which can lead to other dark places !

    At the end of the day, we just want to be loved since we are human !!

    Please read these 2 short articles:

    1) http://www.professional-counselling.com/how-to-deal-with-rejection.html#.VGk_JKQo6rw

    2) http://www.wikihow.com/Handle-Rejection

    Also, listen to this song – it will bring you some peace and hope:

    GOD bless !

    Sat Nam

    Thank you BenzRabbit,

    I took some tips from the articles and I thank you for including the song and time to respond to my post. It’s been 6 months of ups and downs but I have to push through it all. I’ve been hearing from my son’s father once a month since September and each time he shows signs of life I show signs of decay. In the past few weeks it’s been the worst with hurtful truths coming to light, not from him but through other means. I guess my sadness stems from losing all hope in this person being an honest person or an involved father to his son…us being a family.

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