Dear Fierygator:
Make sure your 18 year old doesn’t believe in real life “knights in shining armor”, that she leaves the image of those where it belongs, in the renaissance fair!
It is a loss, the good, exciting activity time you had with him. That is gone. I remember at this moment, one of the most exciting times I experienced, my first time in Disneyland when I was 24. I was so excited as I went on all the rides I wanted (the lines happened to be short, the weather wonderful). I tried to recreate that excitement by going back to Disneyland again and again. It never happened again, that excitement, the lines were long every time I returned. That first time excitement was gone. It often happened when I tried to re-create an exciting experience.
I hope you do enjoy the Renaissance fair with your daughter. (I hope you go there with no expectations, to match any excitement of a previous experience).
anita