My ex recently broke up with me on the grounds that he felt we don’t have similar passions especially with regards to occult things and spirituality.

To be honest, the whole thing was a shock to me because we have a lot of common interests like yoga and I have always been open to talking about his interests. I even offered that we read books about them together! I know I wasn’t such a perfect girlfriend but no one is. I still take pride though in saying that whatever I did, it was always out of genuine care towards my ex

Anyways, it turns out he cheated on me with this girl whom he thinks has very similar interests with him. She made a move on him and he reciprocated. To be honest, my main issue with the whole thing is that he still cries over me, still says he loves me more, and still wants to talk to me. If this girl is everything you ever wanted, why are you still so emotionally attached to me? Shouldn’t she be bothered that you trashtalk her to your ex???? Why would you leave me for someone you consider lesser than me???

What’s even more frustrating is that this girl isn’t even half of what I am!!! She’s an absolute downgrade from me: she’s a certified drug addict who dropped out of highschool. His family hates her guts because she’s very selfish and not that physical features should be important but everyone says I’m way more attractive.

despite this, my ex still wants to stay with her and actually told me that he could actually fall  in love with this girl. He doesn’t know yet if she’s the one and he hasn’t even told her that he loves her yet but he feels the need to stay because he thinks he will learn a lot from this relationship?? But to be honest, everything he’s learning right now is just a reflection of all the things I helped him with!!! I.E. he was also a drug addict but helped him come out of it. Now he says he hates these kinds of people but has a soft spot for the drug addict he’s dating???

I DON’T UNDERSTAND IT AT ALL.

I know the best thing is to just stay away from him but I really just get frustrated with the whole thing because I feel like it just doesn’t make sense. Someone help me understand where I went wrong and what’s on his mind???