I feel like I’m losing my mind. My ex broke up with me and it just shattered everything I was already going through stuff and this happened and its been a month since it happened and my life seems to get worse . I love him and he broke up with me because he didn’t feel the same. I want to let him go I want to move on but a part of me is just holding on to everything . I don’t want to anymore . He’s moving on and I’m stuck with the love for him and my misery. I want more then anything to love myself and find my own joy again .also I haven’t been eating much any advice ?
I understand as I’ve gone thru that before too. It sucks! But you come out of it so much stronger. I promise you’re ok! Letting go can be so difficult. It’s ok.
Im the same. I just dont want to eat when Im stressed or heartbroken. Be gentle with yourself. Do something to take care of yourself even if you don’t feel like it. Even this week for myself, Ive had to say, ok, I know I’ll feel better and things won’t seem so bad in my life if I eat something! Noorishing the body is really important when you are stressed. You have to do it as an act of self-love when you feel like it the least. Drinking a glass of water with fresh squeezed lemon makes me feel really good. Are there any healthy smoothie/supplement mixes you like that will pack a lot of nutrients in even if you dont feel like cooking? Try to eat some nuts or an energy bar for some healthy fats that will keep you full.
Wrap your arms around yourself, give yourself a hug, take a deep breath and tell yourself – everything is ok in this moment.