Hi There,

I just need your feedback on my relationship. The one that I am in now, is the healthiest relationship that I have been in. This relationship makes me want to improve myself and try to become a better person.
My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost a year now, we see each other only on weekends because we live about 2 hours away. We get a long so well and I think that we are doing ok.. but then my ego and paranoia comes in from time to time when everything is going well. I get jealous a lot that’s the issue that I have been going through right now, I got jealous when I found out that he has been going out to lunch with his female workers (one on one). He doesn’t tell me about this because he thinks that it is not important, because it doesn’t mean anything and it’s just work. I had a weird dream that he went out on a date with his female coworker and I told him if he was doing that and he said Yes. I can’t help to feel uncomfortable about this, because with my experience there are always intention there. I have been hard on myself because of this. I trust my boyfriend, I am just thinking why he puts himself in situations like this. If my boyfriend feels uncomfortable about something I would adjust to it. I am just disappointed because he cannot see my point of view.

Do you think I am over reacting? Do I just need to let this feeling go and just trust?