Dear Hari Chhetry:

You used the term “soulmate” referring to this woman in relation to you.

Wikipedia entry on “soulmate” reads: “In current usage, ‘soulmate’ usually refers to a romantic partner, with the implication of an exclusive lifelong bond…  It is a very versatile term, being defined differently by different individuals, as it is related to the concept of love. It commonly holds the connotation of being the strongest bond with another person that one can achieve.”

Notice the last sentence I quoted: “being the strongest bond with another person”- but her strongest bond is with her family who disapproved of the bond with you: “her family came to know about us and did not approve me as her partner due to which she detached from me suddenly and never gave any reasons for the same.”- once her family disapproved, she detached from you quickly and without giving you reasons, and she is not responding to your efforts to reach her.

Therefore, I am challenging the term “Soulmate”, the title of your thread.

Unfortunately, the emotional attachment to her that you formed is very strong and so, you miss her so much now that she is gone from your life- that I do not challenge.

anita