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  • March 13, 2018 at 12:09 am #197007
    Anonymous
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    My original post was reported for it’s content, I didn’t intend to offend anyone I’m just trying to reach out and get some advice and a little bit of help to heal myself for the mistakes I’ve made.

    Although I want to thank Anita for the advice and help she gave me in her replies.

    I’m just trying to find the path to heal.

    March 13, 2018 at 12:22 am #197011
    Anonymous
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    Please let me finish my conversations and stuff in this one. I’ll be careful how I word my things in the future

    March 13, 2018 at 8:16 am #197039
    Anonymous
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    Dear Anon:

    I just learned myself that your other thread was reported for inappropriate content and will not accept further posts, for that reason. I understand why a lot of people would feel distress about the topic, after all, you do. I do too. The thought of it, is indeed distressing and the reality of such things happening, such abuse perpetrated upon children is dreadful. This is why following your posting here on the website, if this issue continues to trouble you, best you see a quality psychotherapist, one trained to handle such an issue.

    The exercise I suggested was aimed for you to separate what went on in your head that night, what was not expressed in your behavior, from what was expressed. Often we confuse the two.

    There is not much more I can suggest on the matter, other than to see a psychotherapist. I feel uncomfortable, as a matter of fact, to continue discussing this. Knowing I am not likely to make a long term difference for you on the matter, not likely to resolve your distress beyond momentary relief, at best, makes my distress a losing proposition for me, that is, something I suffer while not benefiting anyone.

    If you  would like to discuss other of the mistakes you mentioned, non sexual ones, please do and I will respond to those.

    anita

     

    March 13, 2018 at 8:47 am #197045
    Anonymous
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    Dear Anita.

    Agreed, hearing stories about child abuse is indeed horrible, but its not my intention to offend anyone, trigger anyone or upset anyone.

    Okay I’ll say one final thing on the matter, I didn’t break any laws, I didn’t do anything sexual to the other person nor were they even asked to. I just feel horrible about the fact I just behaved in such a way. I know in myself I was just a young stupid teenager that made horrible mistakes.

    I had no intentions to offend anyone. Also Anita you did help me you said something yesterday. You said that you couldn’t see much harm being done in the incident and that was great to read that also someone else said that too. Although the exercise I done did allow me to see things clearly for what they are, didn’t make me feel any better about it but it did let me view things clearly. So I want to thank you for all of that.

    It’s like I said yesterday even writing out my story and y’know talking to someone about it helped me a little, I am doing a little better today with it all but it will take time for me to overcome this incident that happened in the past.

    I am going to work through this and find my way to heal, I’m not exactly sure how that is yet but I’ll find my path to healing one way or another. I did mention in my original post that I may go and speak to my GP to go and speak to someone who is trained to speak about these kinds of things.

    I think I will excuse myself from this website now though, I don’t think I will post or comment anything else here, although none of my other mistakes are sexual. I am just going to read other stories on here for a little while before posting or commenting anything else.

    So again. I want to thank you for your time and taking the time to respond and even chat with me. Keep helping people Anita, you’re good at what you’re doing right now and you have been very understanding with me.

    March 13, 2018 at 8:58 am #197053
    Anonymous
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    Dear Anon:

    You are welcome. Will be looking for future posts from you. Take good care of yourself, do-no-harm, not to yourself and not to others.

    anita

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