Partner is upset at me.

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April 7, 2024 at 11:31 am #430715

anita
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Dear Sunny:

Reads like an sincere, thorough apology.

I am not understanding something, you wrote (in the last two posts): “I didn’t yell or argue with him in a violent tone. It was a very calm toned conversation… I feel very uneasy about this because we’ve had fights before“- if there were no yelling, no violent tone… no abusive words (?), if it was a very calm-toned conversation… what do you mean by the words fights?

anita

April 7, 2024 at 11:38 am #430716

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Our fights have always been handled with respect. We have never yelled or raised our tone or done anything out of respect for one another. 
When we did get into it the day before first day, it was through messaging. We were just going back and forth about the whole gift thing and that’s when it lead to this whole mess. 
In the past, we’ve had our fair share of fights or disagreements (if you want to call it that) or as I like to call it, a bump in the road. We’ve worked through it together and pushed through and decided how we can show up better for each other. But in this case, I’m feeling a bit uneasy knowing that it’s been almost a week and we haven’t talked and this has been the longest space requested by him. I just feel like I messed up big time and I’m not sure if there’s anything I can do besides wait until he reaches out when he’s ready. 

April 7, 2024 at 11:48 am #430717

Helcat
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Hi Sunny

It sounds like you were very understanding and caring regarding your partner’s hurt feelings. You gave an excellent apology.

In return, you are being ignored. This isn’t how people should treat those they care about. People make mistakes and handling conflict in a healthy way is essential in relationships.

Wishing you all the best! ❤️🙏

April 7, 2024 at 11:50 am #430718

anita
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Dear Sunny:

Still trying to understand your use of the word fights, in regard to the last one, “I was through messaging. We were just going back and forth about the whole gift thing and that’s when it lead to this whole mess“- can you include part of the messaging exchange with him on that day that likely distressed him, what did you message him, what did he message you back, etc.?

anita
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