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  • July 13, 2015 at 8:05 pm #79817
    Lostnotfoundneedhelp
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    There is this guy, who I have loved a lot, he decided to go abroad to work a better living for us and just as I feared we broke up over the phone. 4 years of this relationship since 2009 to 2013 and I have been lost since, I keep finding reasons for getting depressed about it, don’t find him in anyone else, can’t move on. Recently he calls and says he wants to consider marriage after a couple of years if we haven’t found anyone else, he too loves me but is not interested in a long distance relationship. He wants to focus on his masters, that day and today, he doesn’t talk to me, he is very rude and I feel absolutely useless and cranky. Everything inside me just feels as if it will collapse, I want to heal so desperately, I know I am not the first to fall or lose in love, but I can’t seem to get over him. It’s as if something is so punctured and I feel like a complete loser 🙁

    July 15, 2015 at 7:45 pm #79924
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    I am so sorry that you are having such a difficult time. First and foremost you need to take good care of yourself. You deserve to be happy and healthy. I want to mention that there are tonnes of videos on you tube that have amazing advice about tips on how to get over break ups by people who have been through it and are going through it. I think you would find these videos very helpful.

    Although it’s hard to accept, you owe it to yourself to accept things and move on. He made his decision. You deserve someone who will love you so much that not even distance can come in between your relationship. Please try your best to put a smile on your face. Do the things you love, be with your family and friends. You can be happy without him, it is 100% possible. Life does go on. Do things that make you feel empowered and listen to empowering music.

    I always find it’s a good idea to write all your thoughts out in a journal to really cleanse your mind and vent. I know you mentioned that he doesn’t talk to you since that day and he’s very rude. Why would you want to be with someone who treats you like that? You deserve a million times better than that! You deserve to be treated like a QUEEN! 🙂 You will get through this!

    Sending positive vibes your way 🙂

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