Dear bunnymac:

You mean that he was “very ‘together'” for three whole years, no struggles and all “his own family stuff, plus.. illness” and him cutting all contact with his mother, all that started after three years, not before?

anita

Dear bunnymac:

Then let’s go back to the question you asked in your original post: “if he is capable of being in a relationship but not with me then it has to be me, right?!”- I was quick to answer this question for you, saying no, it is not you.

But maybe I was too quick to answer. Is it possible then that it is you who solely or partly brought about the ending of this six year relationship, and if this is a possibility, then what is it that you did or say, over time, that brought about this ending?

anita